In our lifetime we meet many persons from different walks of life. Some we like, some we become fond of, with some we feel comfortable, with some we feel affectionate, some we want them to stay around with us, with some we strike meaningful conversation, with some we feel the warmth & sincerity, some become life long friends after having met the first time, some become loyal and trust worthy BUT there are some we don’t seem to like even during our first meeting. There are some without assigning any genuine reason we would like to keep away from. Some we meet quite frankly at the first meeting we seem to develop a dislike, and there are some we don’t want to know them.
The Question is: Why does this happen? This is due to interaction between different souls. I came across this in a newsgroup and found it be profound, it sheds some light on why we react to some people and why we sometimes feel that we have known that person even though we have never met them.
With each person who passes through your life, you have a soul agreement. What this means is that, long ago in the realm of the soul, you promised to have some special encounter, share some life-shaping experience, complete some soul-honing work with that particular soul in this life. Soul agreements are commitments to the evolution of our individual souls in conjunction with one another, as one by one we make the journey to that state of seamless awareness that the mystics call Enlightenment.
It is because of these agreements on a soul level that at times you may feel a mysterious strange connection with some other person, why difficult people may at times inexplicably inhabit your life, why you may find yourself on a journey with a particular person – as if you had an unwritten contract to fulfill – and then discover that, as if by amputation, your association is suddenly over.
As the community of souls who have gathered together in life on Earth, we have agreed not only to remember for each other the pure state that was our origin, but also to act out whatever portion of the needlessly changing tableau of human experience.
We have been called upon to play to ensure our own soul’s growth, and that of the souls to whom we have made these deep promises. Some of us are here to be beautiful and strong, others to be cranky and difficult, some teach us through the searing heartbreak, others to instruct us through wisdom, but no matter what role we are playing, we are all enacting a part in that
one great spiritual destiny, which is to remember our eternal essence and move toward ultimate union.So it is that every person you meet, each soul who crosses your path and affects you – wonderfully and terribly, briefly, or for a lifetime – is here for that reason, and every relationship you engage in, is but a small scene in the vast, ever-unfolding human panoply that is being endlessly enacted for the purpose of your soul’s development.
When you recognize this, you will suddenly, breathtakingly see that each person has been brought to you with a high and elegant purpose, that each soul has come to touch your soul and teach it, and that each relationship exists to hasten your own soul’s beautiful awakening.
No longer is anyone a stranger, no longer can any of your relationships be seen as failures or mistakes. In the light of the Spirit, we see that we are all playing out roles that are the fulfillment of an exquisite and all-encompassing plan.
To recognize this is to step out of conflict, and into Grace. For when we realize that life has been so beautifully designed, we will bask in the light of the Spirit and we will live in absolute Peace.
— Unknown
